Where Are We Now?

Of course we indicated our interest in two of the children whose pictures we were sent. There was one couple who was ahead of us in consideration for them, but soon we were at the top of the list. Does that mean that they are guaranteed to be ours? No, but we’re hopeful. We’re trying to complete our paperwork as quickly as possible to make sure no one else is paper-ready before we are.

So what does the future hold from here?

So far, we have completed our application, paid our initial program fees, and have been accepted into the Democratic Republic of Congo Program.

  • Next, we have to redo our homestudy. Because our original homestudy was done for domestic adoption through the foster care system, there are a few adjustments that need to be made. That requires meeting with Catholic Charities three separate times. Our first meeting is this week.
  • Once our homestudy is complete, we apply to the Department of Homeland Security for Advance Processing. We will await an appointment letter for fingerprinting and await pre-approval for immigration.
  • Then we send our home study, criminal background checks, physician clearances, and a half dozen other things to the Congolese authorities as a Dossier.
  • Then we wait for our official referral for children. There should be no wait time once the paperwork is processed, if all goes as expected, because we have identified waiting children that we are ready to accept. We’ll likely receive more detailed information on them at that time. For now, we don’t know much.
  • Following that, we will be scheduled for local court, which can take 2-4 months. If we receive approval, there is a 30 day appeal period before our case is referred to the Ministry.
  • At that point, we file to have the children classified as immediate relatives with the Department of Homeland Security. Approval takes 1-3 months.
  • We then file paperwork for the embassy in the Congo to process visas for the children. This process takes approximately 2 months.
  • We then obtain a letter from Congolese Emigration for the children to leave the country.
  • Finally, we travel to the Democratic Republic of Congo to get the children. The trip will last approximately 7-14 days.

What does all of that add up to? Probably a 6-12 month process.

Because the program in the Democratic Republic of Congo is new, and is becoming more popular, timelines may increase. The very nature of adopting in a country that is not Hague accredited is unpredictable. So far, all adoptions through our agency have been processed in less than a year — and that includes families who have had to wait to receive a referral. We hopeful that ours might be a bit shorter because we’re ahead of the game with our home study being near completion already, and the fact that we are going to accept older children.  The faster we can complete our paperwork, the faster we will be able to bring them home.

But there is one other not-so-small issue: cost. $28,000 that we don’t have.



5 thoughts on “Where Are We Now?

  1. I am praying that all comes together quickly for you! Anyone can gives us timelines, but in reality, it all happens in God’s time. So, I’m going to pray that His time is shorter than “their” time! 🙂 Not only will it be great for you guys, but it will be wonderful for the children to have a place and family they belong in!! Hugs and prayers your way, my friend

    • We’re not expecting the timeline to go any faster, and that’s okay. God is in charge of the timeline, and we trust it. In fact, we didn’t even start to add up how long the total process would take until we started to be asked the question repeatedly. We want to be diligent in always doing our part, and let God take care of His.

  2. Robin, I have a friend in the office of Homeland Security. When you are ready for that step let me know and I will give you his name. I will also tell him to expect your call.

  3. Thanks Marilyn! We talked to our social worker yesterday, and she recommended using standard processes. But if we come across any difficulties, we may need him!

    Thanks for your prayers Kari! And tell little Ethyl Methyl Polly Ester to get well soon! 🙂

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s